my story
We all have stories, filled with both moments of happiness and struggles, but each one is beautiful, including yours. Take a glimpse into mine, where through ups and downs, I found the most precious gift of all- the discovery and love for myself.
This community started with a dream to compete in my first pageant ever. I manifested it into reality by believing in myself and learning to love everything about me. I'll let you in on a little secret; self-love takes work, but if you believe you are worth it, the investment always pays off.
But let's rewind a little bit to explain exactly how I started my own self-love revolution.
I am here to build a community where self-love is everything! Where each individual feels empowered to live authentically and let their uniqueness show. A space where we can share our self-love journey to empower others, creating a ripple effect that spreads positivity, acceptance, kindness, and empowerment.
here's a snapshot of my life
let's rewind...
I found my fairytale romance with my husband. It was love at first sight, and we’re still making memories almost two decades later. While my family is all in other states, they find ways to support all my goals and dreams. Outside of my career and podcasting, you can find me taking long walks to clear my head and catch up on podcasts, sipping champs celebrating almost anything, or cozied up in a chair reading a book. My grandparents were a huge influence in my life. From long walks and great talks with my grandpa to learning life lessons from my grandma - their memories still guide how I move through life today. They sparked my love for reading!
I’ve always considered myself a strong, confident individual, but not even I am immune to letting judgment and negative self-talk take over. Over time the things people said started to add up. My first memory of judgment is from the 3rd grade when a random mom at a school fashion show commented about my size and was surprised I was modeling in the show. BTW, I killed it on the runway. I have other similar memories sprinkled throughout the years. I wasn’t much of a follower, and coolness didn’t impress me - not exactly the best recipe to fit in. I was the subject of jokes, bullying, and hurtful comments.
One day there was a perceived threat to my life. The incident eventually resulted in being diagnosed with PTSD. I recently went through treatment, where I learned just how much my life had changed after that day. Everything I went through created a domino effect that led to an eating disorder and years' worth of self-hate.
When my self-love wavered
PAGEANTRY - one of my why's
PAGEANTRY -
one of my why's
I’m okay with everything that happened in my past because it gave me the strength and power to be here, building this community. It’s allowed me to find the why, claim my voice, and use it to connect with others through our stories.
Through reflection, I can identify when my strength flourished during the hard moments. I have a drive within me to experience new things, like skydiving to walking across the stage in a pageant.
Pageantry is empowering. The women competing are at the top of their game, making a difference in their communities. I knew I belonged on stage and wanted to be part of the pageant community. So I got a coach and learned to walk in really high heels.
As a titleholder, I have a unique opportunity to lead by example and support my community by serving our nonprofits and bringing awareness to mental health and what it means to Love Yourself Inside Out.
today
Loving yourself allows you to show up in life as your best self! You become empowered to achieve your dreams, try new things and serve others, ultimately improving your community. Join me in spreading the power of self-love!
As a titleholder, I have a unique opportunity to lead by example and support my community by serving our nonprofits and bringing awareness to mental health and what it means to Love Yourself Inside Out.
charities I work with:
